For white belts — and anyone who still thinks like one
Train for twenty
more years
Most jiu-jitsu content is made for people chasing results. This isn't. It's the simple, low-risk version — what to work on, what to skip, and how to still be on the mat in twenty years. Calm comes before technique.
Who this is for
Everybody starts here. Some people leave the mindset behind at blue belt, and the ones who don't tend to be the ones still improving at forty.
Nothing awkward
No inverting, no scrambles that load your neck, nothing that trades a joint for a result. If it isn't worth the risk, it isn't here.
Calm before technique
Most beginners aren't tired, they're tense — and tension is where the nagging injuries come from. Learning to relax is the actual first skill.
Direction, not more moves
You don't need another technique library. You need one thing to work on when you walk in, and a way to tell whether it worked.
Alongside your gym
This doesn't replace your instructor and isn't trying to. Go train, in person, with a real one.
Mapping out your road to blue belt
A free PDF — the four stripe checkpoints, what each one asks of you, how many days a week to train depending on how long you've been going, and how to pick a gym that will actually get you there.
Sign up once and you get the rest too. Everything written here goes out by email as it's published — one idea at a time, nothing to buy, no schedule to keep up with. Useful whether you tied a white belt on last month or you've been at this ten years.
- What earns your first stripe, and how long it really takes
- How many days a week, by how long you've been training
- Staying calm in bad positions before you learn to escape them
- Ten guiding tips, starting with the only one that matters
- How to tell a real instructor from a guy showing moves
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Mapping out your road to blue belt
Free PDF · 15 pages
Start reading
Each of these covers one subject properly, with the detail linked from inside it. More going up through the autumn — everyone on the list gets them as they're written.
How to avoid the injuries that take you off the mat
Bumps and bruises come with it. The ones that cost you months mostly don't have to. Relaxing, tapping on time, reading what your body tells you, choosing partners, and finding what actually went wrong — with the full version of each linked inside.
Surviving your first six months
Frames, breathing under pressure, and what to do when somebody bigger is on top of you and nothing works.
Training partners and mat etiquette
Choosing them, reading them, turning down a roll without it being weird, and being someone people want to train with.
What to think about while you're training
Picking one thing per round instead of drowning in all of it, and learning to notice rather than react.
Is this normal?
Getting tapped constantly, month three, feeling like you got worse at six months, being the oldest in the room.
Picking a gym
What to look for, what to ask, what should worry you, and how to tell an instructor from a guy showing moves.
Ranks and the road to blue belt
How long it takes, what each stripe asks of you, and why comparing yourself to anybody else never helps.
What's being built
This is a new site and I'd rather tell you what's coming than pretend it's already here.
Now — short clips
A few a week on YouTube and Instagram. Survival details, partner etiquette, and what not to try yet.
Through the autumn — written material
The clips become proper written pieces here, organized by what's actually going wrong rather than by technique name. Everyone on the list gets them as they go up.
Early next year — the program
A two-year, week-by-week plan. One focus a week: what to drill, what to give up on purpose, and how to know it's working. It goes to this list first.